Stockists

UK

Darkcell Digital Music : buy Illumina CDs and music by many other artists here.
Music Non Stop
Resurrection Records
CD Zone

USA

Projekt: Darkwave
Metropolis
Middle Pillar
Darkland Music
Vintage Vinyl
Rasputin Music

europe

Cyberware, Finland

asia

CD Shop Gold, Japan

'zines

Side-Line Magazine
Loki's Site
Hard Wired
Urotsukidoji’s Pad
Russian Gothic Page
The New Empire
Dark Realms
Darkwave.org.uk: home of netgoth & /goth

bands

Libitina

clubs

bluesilver: electroclash and 80s electro, Spiders, Nottingham
InFest: excellent cybergothicindustrial festival, Bradford
Carpe Noctum: club night, Bradford
Nightmare: club night, Nottingham
Cyberpolis: club night, Nottingham
Dissolution: club night, Sheffield [Now sadly departed]
Electrotribe: club night, Leicester

gear

hardware

Audio Technica: microphones
Yamaha: all sorts of stuff
Peavey: guitar amps & other stuff
Korg: synths, effects etc.
Roland: just about everything, including Boss pedals
Zoom: effects units
Behringer: effects & audio solutions
Tascam: portastudios, minidisc recorders and stuff
Samson: mics, amps etc.

software

Cubase
Reason
Reaktor
ReFX: makers of TBL (the best 303-a-like), JunoX2 (really nice individual-sounding synth) and others. Demo versions available.
K-v-R: loads of links to VSTis, plus banks and patches.